I told my wife of 5 years It is over and I am fileing for divorce.I. It has been over 3 years since we had more then "special occasion sex" She say's she feels dirty having sex with the kids right across the hall, BJ's stopped after our first was born 3 years ago she said she is a mom now moms don't do that it's dirty.. I'm not going to cheat like so many do I'm leaving her first. Sure I took vows , non of them said love cherish and remain sexless till deth do us part...