I have two jobs and when I work on the weekends all I hear about is how she feels alone and unsupported and how overwhelmed she is by the yard work. Christ, she is a SAHM so get over yourself. Get a job if you want to, you have a college degree and the kids are in school. Do something anyway other than complain. And also, since I am supporting you, your kids from your first marriage and your mother, don't I deserve a blow job once in a while as well.