I stuck with my alcoholic and she's now 8 months sober. but now she's starting up with the damn bulimia ! apparently it's the emotional stress of our relationship that's triggering her . er *dud* of course the relationship is not that good , you drank yourself retarded for years and I had to deal with the most messed up crap I've ever seen in my life . you swung from loving to abusive psycho and to deal I shut down emotionally . and now you put this pressure on me ? I have to make everything alright or you're gonna keep vomiting ( and hey the faint whiff of vomit does bloody wonders for my sex drive...)

We wrote the first draft of our daughter's eulogy today.

I think just sex is worst than an emotional affair. I'd feel better if my wife was willing to risk our life together for love than if she was willing to risk everything we built for an orgasm.

If your kid doesn't say "I hate you" at least once during their childhood, you suck as a parent.

"An emotional affair is just as, if not more, painful as a physical one. Be an adult and end one relationship before starting a new one." Why is that more painful then actual sex, please explain.

If she's falling in love with someone else, it hurts more than if she just fucked someone. Seriously.

100% of the time when I am having sex with my wife, I'm thinking about someone else. Not the same someone all the time, but I'm never thinking about my wife.

I left my alkie first wfe years ago. best thing i ever did. Alkies never change. they lie and say they will but they don't. they are drunks for life, even when they dont' drink they still have fucked up attitudes because their brains are so messed up from teh years of abuse. Neer stay with an alkie wife. I still remember her stinking of booze and that horrible slobby way she had of speaking. I can't beleive I stayed so long. the sex wasn't even good. If you have a way out take it!

I would not have had kids if I'd know how much I would hate it

"these confessions have sucked lately - where did all this touchy-feely BS come from?? are the women on our board again??? cuz i doubt there are all from men........"

Cuz unless they're poorly written and badly spelled and filled with crap about banging 20-something chicks then of course it's got to be a lady writing it, right? Listen asshole, shut up. guys like you are why women hate us.

>"I do all the shopping and cleaning, all the projects and everything else. She doesn't mind, but it's DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!".............

"Ummmmm what does your wife do all day long????"

She literally sits on the couch making lists of things to take care of so her stress level will go down. I'm neither lying nor exagerating. It does not matter how much I do because if a majority of someone's day is spent thinking of things to do, there will never be enough time to do it all. I'm going to go to the library and get a book on how to deal with a spouse's chronic anxiety disorder. She would be so offended if she found out, though, so I'm going to have to read it at work. Oy.