My sex life with my wife is so BORING! She just lays there and moans, she never speaks about sex or talks dirty. Lately I have been fantasizing about her having an affair, at least then we'd have some friggin excitement. I must be going crazy.....

"An emotional affair is just as, if not more, painful as a physical one. Be an adult and end one relationship before starting a new one."

Why is that more painful then actual sex, please explain.

Kids learn respect via consequences. I'm sorry but a 2 year old doesn't get that bit about 'feelings' and how he hurt them. He needs a time out in his room or ..that's right...'punishment'. A 4 year old is not yet developmentally ready to have a discussion about what is morally right and wrong. He needs to lose his privilages and suffer the consequences of his actions or..that's right..punishment. I am tired of these wishy-washy parents who dare not say 'no' to their child or punish them for fear of their child not liking them. Man up and be a parent! Yeah, sometimes they will not like you and perhaps even fear you. That's what parenthood is. You are not your child's 'buddy' and I for one am sick of the entitlement minded brats these 'buddy parents' are turning out.

i haven't slept with DW in a couple months. tonight she tried to turn me on and i couldn't get hard... what is wrong with me? she thinks im cheating, but im not. when she was about 4 months pregnant i stopped thinking about sex, and now DD is 6 months old and i still never think about it anymore.

I'm 26 years old and just added another failed marriage to my list of "accomplishments". I'm starting to believe the problem is me.

I am engaged to someone who cleans the house, cooks, takes care of our dog, but has absolutely zero passion or initiative in the bedroom. Lately I have been fantasizing about her best friend who does not cook or clean but oozes sex and has a great body. I know it is wrong so why can't I stop myself?

My DW is an AMAZING cook. Utterly amazing.

She also has a severe pinched nerve in her shoulder, so baking was killing her and she stopped making me treats all the time.

So, I set out to be the hero and bought her a brand new mixer.

Now, I either need to lose weight or buy bigger pants...

It takes a lot to push a daughter/stepdaughter away, but once you do, they're gone. She may come home and act like everything's ok, but she will still hate you - I know from experience.

I have no sex drive and I don't know why. My wife has been so patient, but I know its killing her inside.

I knew my wife when she was 16, and I thought she was hot. But I was in my 30's at the time.

We didn't have a relationship until she was in her 20's and I was in my 40's.

I guess that makes me a perv.